30 Jan 2019
Writing my morning pages the other day, I found myself reminiscing about a fun story about dad.
He learned, after many years of eating pretzels and cashews, that he really didn’t like either. He liked salt.
Every time I think of that discussion, I smile. It was quintessential dad. But it also makes me think a lot about other things that perhaps I’ve let “creep in” to my life. What other food - or habits, routines, friendships, etc. - do I cling to because they bring me some other thing, and how might I get that other thing in a way that’s healthier, more efficient, or better in some other way.
Following that rabbit trail a little further led me to think of how my faith has changed over the years. I have conflicted feelings about the faith of my childhood. I don’t believe some of what I did as a child, but I still believe much of what I have my whole life. I sometimes wonder why. Am I clinging to some of those things for some other reason?
13 Mar 2018
Years ago, I had a weekly feature on my blog where I showcased some great sites I had discovered.
Haven’t done it in a while, and I’ve discovered a few really cool sites I’ve saved to share sometime.
12 Mar 2018
Breakfast at Tiffany’s always reminds me of that Seinfeld episode. George tells Jerry that it’s the book they are reading for book club and Jerry replies with “Truman Capote?”
Jerry: Great writer!
George: Oh yeah
Jerry: You ever read any of his books
George: No? You?
11 Mar 2018
We had so much fun the weekend Fire and Fury was released, we decided we were going to read a different book together every weekend. Well, maybe not together, but concurrently.
Since the whole family was excited for the release of a new film based on an old class which neither of us had read, we decided to start with A Wrinkle in Time.
Like and equal are not the same thing at all.
11 Mar 2018
Only had time for one movie this weekend and we had to make it fit within a tight window, so we saw a movie we weren’t relaly stoked about - Jumanji: Welcome to the Jungle. We both love The Rock, have enjoyed his other films, and we laughed hysterically at Central Intelligence which also featured Kevin Hart. So we knew we’d laugh but we weren’t sure of much else.
We also really liked the original, so now I wonder why this wasn’t higher on our list.
You don’t get in water with a backpack, everybody knows that.
11 Mar 2018
Having seen almost all of the films nominated for Oscars, we went looking for something else last weekend. As I read through the names of films, Terri responded to one of them with excitement - Red Sparrow.
Wow, what a surprise this movie was!
Great family that I have!
04 Mar 2018
Writing (Original Screenplay)
All solid nominees this year, but my favorite is Get Out. Like most horror movies, things fall apart a bit at the end, but it’s a really original and thought provoking story.
Writing (Adapted Screenplay)
I haven’t read any of the original works here, but my favorite script from this batch is The Disaster Artist.
All of this years nominees featured outstanding visual effects, but one of them blew me away - Blade Runner 2049.
I don’t have a strong opinion on this one, but my vote would be for Baby Driver.
It amuses me somewhat that all the nominees are the same as for Sound Mixing. Perhaps because very few people really know what the difference is. :) I could see this going to any of the films, but probably Dunkirk or Star Wars: The Last Jedi.
Short Film (Live Action)
All very good this year, but The Eleven O’Clock was my favorite.
Short Film (Animated)
I usually have one ore more of these which I do not like. This year was different, but I do have one favorite - Negative Space.
Blade Runner 2049 or The Shape of Water
Music (Original Song)
I think Mystery Of Love is the favorite, and I think it’s great, but I’d choose Stand Up For Something from Marshall.
Music (Original Score)
Dunkirk or Star Wars: The Last Jedi
Makeup and Hairstyling
Tough call this time but I’d choose - Wonder
Foreign Language Film
I only saw one of these - The Square. I’d like to think that was not the best this year, so I’m picking the only other film that played near me - A Fantastic Woman.
Several good choices this year, but I’m going with I, Tonya.
Documentary (Short Subject)
This is much tougher than it usually is for me. I really enjoyed all of them. My favorite is Knife Skills. Traffic Stop had a lot of potential. If it had explored some of the more difficult questions related to that traffic stop, it would have been my pick for sure. Instead, I think Heroin(e) will win. It explores what is a huge, and growing problem in the U.S, and shows a glimmer of hope dealing with it.
I did not see Faces Places but the others were all very good. All stories that needed to be told. All told well. I found myself confused throughout most of Icarus and I’m still not sure how the film was made (who knew what and when did they know it, etc.) but if I had to pick one over the others, this is the one.
I think this if one of those years where Best Picture and Directing will be split. I think the Directing award goes to Jordan Peele for Get Out.
I think Phantom Thread is the least deserving, but I would not be surprised if any of these win. My pick is The Shape of Water.
I still don’t know quite how this is measured, but I was very impressed with all of these films. Two of them stand out for me above the others, though - Blade Runner 2049 and The Shape of Water.
Animated Feature Film
I think this one is a lock for Loving Vincent.
Actress in a Supporting Role
I think Vicky Krieps stole the show in Phantom Thread so I was surprised not to see a nomination for her. In the end, I think she would not have beaten Allison Janney or my pick - Laurie Metcalf.
Actor in a Supporting Role
Though one performance stands out far and away above the others for me, I love seeing five spectacular actors nominated this year. All five of these men are consistently outstanding. Sam Rockwell turned in the performance of a lifetime and I would be shocked if he doesn’t win.
Actress in a Leading Role
Once again, this is the toughest category for me. McDormand and Steep are outstanding and turned in excellent performances this year, but I think the other three were better. I’d give Sally Hawkins a very slight edge over Margot Robbie and Saoirse Ronan just slightly behind her. I’d be thrilled to see any of those three win it.
Actor in a Leading Role
This might be a rogue pick (I’m not sure, I try not to read too much about who is the favorite, etc.) but I’m going with Denzel Washington. I almost didn’t see this film because he is not one of my favorite actors, but he really, really impressed me with this performance.
The best I can do is divide these films into two batches:
Should Not Win
I liked three of these movies, but don’t think any of them should win.
My original pick was The Shape of Water but Get Out and Lady Bird really started to grow on me.
I think Best Picture and Directing will be split between Get Out and Lady Bird. I think Lady Bird takes Best Picture.
03 Mar 2018
Every year for the Oscars we put together a menu inspired by the films nominated. I’ve posted the menu here twice before (here and here).
This year’s menu is not quite as elaborate as some.
Here it is.
27 Feb 2018
The tea is going out. The interruption is staying right here with me.
The best art makes one ponder - or contemplate.
This film did that for me.
I wasn’t looking forward to it. The trailer made it look like an intriguing story about an aging bachelor who was set in his ways. A man that was particular and quirky and probably a little irritable.
It certainly was, but more than that it was a story about making a relationship work - no matter what it takes.
When we left the theater, Maya said to us “Well, whatever works for them, right?” which given the story worries me a little coming from my son’s girlfriend :) but I had pretty much the same thought.
The other thing that really surprised me about the film was that this is the third movie I watched in preparation for the Oscars that featured the same - very unusual - plot point. I think I could go ten years straight watching 2-3 movies per week and not see another three total. I was very surprised to see the same thing crop up so many times.
Certainly worthy of the nominations it received. I might have even nominated Vicky Krieps. Though the film wouldn’t be my pick for any of them.
16 Feb 2018
I f–king died today!
I went on an Audible binge about a week ago to start finishing books I’d already started. Naturally, I started with the shortest ones. :)
The second one I finished, on Monday, I think,
15 Feb 2018
The live action shorts this year were all very good.
Four of this year’s nominees are based on real-life events1 and they all raise important issues. The nominations alone will bring awareness, hopefully, to the issues raised in the films.
12 Feb 2018
We went to see the Oscar Nominated Short Filmes over the weekend. We started on Friday night with the animated films.
They were all really good this year.
11 Feb 2018
Sometimes a movie has one quote that wins best quote of the movie without any real competition. This is one of those movies.
I’ll share only part of it so we can share in the inside joke if you’ve seen it and yet I won’t spoil the incredible fun it is when you hear it for the first time.
We handle shit. That’s what we do.
It’s been a long time since I saw this one, but it still sticks with me. It’s a brilliantly directed, terrifying comedy featuring a fantastic performance by Kaluuya.
10 Feb 2018
Don’t say what, Dixon.
We could not wait to see this film.
I was disappointed.
The only redeeming part of the film, if you ask me, were two excellent performances by McDormand and Rockwell.
08 Feb 2018
O woman, we gonna burn in hell!
The Post was a movie I didn’t love that told two great stories. The Shape of Water is a great film that tells a story I don’t really get.
Certainly worthy of the thirteen nominations it received. I think it’s possible it will clean up at the awards this year, but it is my pick for only three. Three big ones, though.
07 Feb 2018
I love to share my favorite quotes from any film I see. Over the last few years, I’ve even started to ask my son and daughter after the film “so what was my favorite quote?” It’s a fun exercise in how well they know dad. :)
Darkest Hour, a film about Churchill, is certainly going to give me a lot of options, but I am going to stick to just two, as usual.
06 Feb 2018
Seeing home doesn’t help us get there, Captain.
A little while ago, before I saw Dunkirk, my daughter asked me “which are your favorite three Nolan films?”
05 Feb 2018
Cinema is a mirror of reality and it is a filter.
Call Me By Your Name is one of those films I can’t say a lot about, and I may push the boundaries and say more about it than I should.
It’s a tremendous film.
04 Feb 2018
Two weeks ago I wrote that I was rooting against the birds.
If the Jaguars had won, they would have been my choice against either NFC team, including my brother’s Vikings. After they lost, I knew I’d be rooting for the NFC - even if it turned out to be the Eagles.
We were really pulling for the Vikings then. Billy even mentioned to me that if the Super Bowl were the Patriots and Eagles, it might be hard to even watch it.
Over the last two weeks I’ve really gotten excited about the possibility of an Eagles win. I think the whole family has. Billy and Maya even drove down from New York to see the game with us.
Terri and I chimed in doing the E-A-G-L-E-S! chant at ACME yesterday!
I even bought a cake and a tee-shirt. :)
03 Feb 2018
Whenever I write a movie review I have the urge to explain why the reviews are so short and lacking in plot details.
Since I’ve decided to post reviews more than once a week, I thought I should just write and post this explanation once.
I like to write movie reviews that contain as few spoilers as possible. I realize that may be irrational in a world where we talk about everything via social media, etc, but I don’t want to be the one that spoils a movie for anyone.
I like to share my favorite quotes from a movie, and sometimes I even have to hold back on those because it spoils too much.
Which means most of my reviews are relatively short - some of them very short.